Advice For Johns ~ Prevent being Stinged by the Cops

Updated on December 20, 2020 in Advice
8 on May 30, 2018

It has been a crazy few months since Backpage has been gone. However, don’t lose hope if you are looking for legit and legal escort services.

There has been a fine line between legal and illegal activities and it is your fault.  With stings increasing to arrest the “Johns” for suspicion of prostitution or suspicion of human trafficking, here are some tips.

Let you remind you that escorting is legal, you pay for time and prostitution is illegal, you pay for sex.  

How to NOT be stinged by the cops.

  • If you find someone that catches your eye. Please make sure they have the following: a phone number you can call, an email, a website, a video (maybe), reviews, and make sure they are posted on other websites. The easiest way to determine that is googleing the number or email address. No cop will invest so much $ in themselves to arrest you. Do this easily can cost over $5k to $10k to do all of this.
  • Do not see anyone that is hosting for one day in a city on a Friday or Saturday. Cops like to arrest on Fridays or Saturdays, so you can think about it all weekend until the Court opens again on Monday. The one city tour date is a dead giveaway. What person in the right mind would pay a lot of money for one day tour. Most girls tour for a few days at a time.
  • Fake photos.  Do image searches on the photos to make sure they are real.
  • To good to be true. If see someone that looks like a supermodel but the rate is under $200, be careful.
  • Ask the ages on who you see. There is one thing to be young and prefer young, but there is a nothing there in being old and creepy. If someone looks under 18, you can help trafficking victims   If you are unsure, ask for ID. This is for you and their safety. If they are younger, PLEASE REPORT TO AUTHORITIES.
  • Outcall hotels: If the hotel needs a key in the elevator and they do not tell you, this is a sting.  This would force you to call them and then describe yourself, and you can get arrested on suspicion of anything.  Same goes if they want to meet you downstairs in person first.
  • Do In calls. In your own surrounding, you are safe.
  • Don’t be a creep. No dirty talking via text or email or over the phone or in person when you first me.  It seems to be the norm for all men these days.
  • If they ask you “What you want” within 5 minutes convo, be careful, this is a possible sting.

Backpage may have been a staple for the industry for the past couple of years. But, remember there was Craiglist before until they shut it down.  Now, there is a new wave of things happening and up and coming sites for men to hobby, here is a short list and what to expect.

For most men looking for backpage replacement, you may have to search a little harder, but here are the new places to find your muse.

Where to look:

The New Wave:

With over 40k sign ups since launch. I would have to say, this site is a fast react to FOSTA. It is a mind fuck. You have to relearn a new system as well learn how to search.  You have to look on the listings section and add hashtags for what you want and look through everything one by one. I like it, but it is messy for me.  I think it is cool for now, I am not sure what to take of it as yet. They are adding new sections daily, but I have found some people that worked out great. Since it is free. Anyone can sign up. But, follow the rules above, I would not say it is completely safe. 

The Most Trusted:

Slixa: Look for the verified section. By far the most complex verification system they have.

Mid to Higher End Escorts, about $400 per hour. This is the closest competitor of Eros.  Though they don’t validate everyone, they have male and females. 99% accurate photos and video.  I suggest pick the ones with personal websites and is verified.  I hate the search. I wish they added to organize certain sections.

Eros:  Look at the VIP or the Frontpagers or if they are Ethnic

Higher End Escorts, about $500 per hour. This site has been around since the beginning. They validate every single girl with their ID, selfies, and photos, you name it. If you can not prove that you can not get one.

90% of the photos are accurate unless they are Russian or some type of European. (Don’t trust those) Just remember with this site, the price is high.  If they don’t have a rate on their website or ad, there is room for negotiation.  

Most Johns has reported that the most accurate people are the non-white ones. Sorry.


Mid to Higher End Escorts, $300 to $800 per hour

Underground secret society. As a man, you have to fully disclose yourself and pay a monthly subscription.  They call your job to confirm you say who you say you are. Their verification process is brutal.  But, if you are game and you are open to the world of the most trusted and reliable network of providers and hobbyist, this is by far the best that is out there.  However, finding someone can be annoying and hard. They dont have much of a search. 

The Erotic Review

Once the best thing in the world to nothing. You no longer can see reviews or tours in the US. If you are computer savvy, you can easily add a VPN and see reviews of other savvy escorts that were able to replace back their reviews. I am hoping they come back in a different way as this was once the best way to find escorts. However, I hear some girls are picking cities outside to represent their current city. For example, Toronto represents MN. 


Higher End Escorts $600 per hour

This site cherry picks the best. However, I would suggest you google the number and emails to confirm they are posted on other sites. Is they are ONLY on Foxy List, it may be a fake ad. 

Closest To Backpage:

Low End:

Up and Coming:

Coming Soon:

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  • Roxxxie

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Thank you TJR for the mention (GFE Dating). We appreciate you, and find your service/website very helpful.

GFE Dating is striving to provide a low cost solution for providers to list as well as clients to get verified. We love our community!


on June 21, 2018

what is the low cost solution?

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Could you a expand a bit more on what kind of convo you may need to have to make a girl comfortable? I’m trying to be sure of what language I need to have to not be too direct. Posted something about that too. Thanks.


on July 1, 2018

If you would like to enjoy a successful evening with a companion, you should first learn how to discuss their services properly.

She is a lady, she expects you to act like a gentleman and if you act like one her experience with you will be one she remembers and appreciates.

  1. When you call Introduce yourself by name.

  2. A Companion is NOT a prostitute and therefore does not sell sex to their clients.

    Even though people often make this simple mistake, the difference between the two must be stressed.

    Companions simply sell the time they spend with their clients and do not charge them for sexual acts.

However, what happens while accompanied by an companion is entirely between two or more consenting adults who share similar likes and interests.

  1. As mentioned in Rule 2, Companions are not prostitutes and will not discuss with their new clients such things like sex or sexual acts in any form or manner.

    When communicating with a companion keep the conversation light hearted and fun. People who attempt to associate sex with a fee while conversing with a companion could possibly be working for Government agencies, Police departments or are soliciting prostitutes and hookers.

    Talking about fees for sexual acts will only scare off a companion and end any further communication between yourselves.

  2. On the first meeting with your companion make sure to leave the agreed fee, ALWAYS BE CLEAN and WELL GROOMED just as if you were going out on a date.

  3. While in the company of your companion you find that you share the same interests and are attracted to one another, then it is up to you to make the first physical contact!

  4. Do not expect your companion to push the date time. Your time is when you booked.

  5. When in the company of an companion do not assume that they will keep track of time.

  6. If you should happen to exceed the paid amount of time expect to pay additional fees.

  7. Like with any industry time means money and you are not entitled to any freebies, so be warned!

  8. Do yourself and the companion a favor and play nicely, if you do you will be treated like a king but you must treat your companion like a queen.

Thank You for taking time to read this etiquette.

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